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The Invisibleness of Infertility: To Pass or Not to Pass?

Posted on October 25, 2012December 16, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

This is a story about the correlation of infertility and allergies. Each Wednesday for a year I dutifully showed up at my local allergy office to get three painful shots. The nurse plunged a syringe containing a cocktail of pollens, trees and grasses into my right arm. In the top left upper arm she injected…

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On Friendship and Hardship

Posted on January 8, 2012December 9, 2015 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Strong, honest and profound friendships can be hard to come by in a fast-paced world characterized by constant interruptions, overscheduling and lives shared in 140 characters or less.  Sure, we can graze all day long but we often don’t feel fully satisfied. A hearty friendship feeds your soul. This weekend I feasted. Friday night the lights twinkled on the Bay…

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What’s Your Litmus Test?

Posted on December 1, 2011April 25, 2014 by Pamela Tsigdinos

The “why” didn’t fully dawn on me until I was in the final burst of last-minute packing for a Thanksgiving family visit. Our direct flight was just under an hour and half. The destination: a picturesque part of the country, home to the world’s largest international independent film festival, a former winter Olympic site, and some…

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Happy T(w)ogether, Thank You Very Much

Posted on August 7, 2011May 24, 2016 by Pamela Tsigdinos

In the category of inflammatory headlines posed as a question here’s one from a self-described “journalist, mother, thinker” that begs a response: Are Childless Couples Headed Toward Divorce? The short answer from my field research is an emphatic: Hell No! The link to the provocative Huffington Post blog headline first came from a longtime pen…

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Thankful For Not So Silent Women

Posted on November 19, 2010August 31, 2015 by Pamela Tsigdinos

“I want to be totally okay with what is and surprised by how marvelous the future will be.” I read that quote on LaBelette Rouge‘s blog this morning and thought, That is so where I am today. Now, how the hell did I manage to get here? This comes after a walk down memory lane…

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Invisibility — Seen it Lately?

Posted on July 14, 2010February 28, 2022 by Pamela Tsigdinos

“The minute you retire, it’s as if you’re invisible.” I had to do a double-take when I read that sentence in an article about how difficult it is to get Stanford profs to make space for younger faculty. What my brain read was “the minute you’re infertile, it’s as if you’re invisible.” Funny thing my…

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Spring Break, Spring Cleaning and Springing Forward

Posted on March 13, 2010September 22, 2016 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Spring is almost here! What does that mean for you? Me? I’m counting the days until we leave for Ireland where the hills are always gloriously green. (Yes, there will be rain so I’ve picked up a new water-repellent, hooded jacket to keep me from getting soaked to the skin). Most of all I’m looking…

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