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Forever Changed … Again

Posted on February 27, 2021February 27, 2021 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Change comes slowly and then all at once. I honestly thought I would be better at coping with change and the pandemic bunker mentality by now.  But after a year, I still feel compelled to dig into my reserves to get through most days.  I know I’m not alone (feel y’all) in my exhaustion and…

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Hello? Is This Thing On?

Posted on February 8, 2021February 8, 2021 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Hello! While the pandemic has left me unable to immediately recognize what day of the week it is most mornings when I open my eyes, I did recall this weekend that it’s blog anniversary time. Yep. First week of February = Surviving in a Mommy Mad World Coming2Terms launch. This year marks 14 years. Fourteen…

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Atta Girl (And That Means, You!)

Posted on December 16, 2020December 17, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Atta Girl is a new publication on Medium. (More about why it exists in a minute.) Today, I am pleased to be among its published writers. Now, I don’t know about you, but I got a little weary of the Momala, Momala, Momala in recent weeks.  The ‘momification’ of Kamala got me thinking and writing….

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Tokenism Takes a New Form

Posted on October 9, 2020October 9, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Tokenism is an awkward thing to experience. I never fully understood how prevalent it is for childless women, but the penny dropped a few weeks ago. So, it started when a Random House marketing manager sent a ham-handed email. She asked if I’d like to read and share The Trying Game as part of October’s…

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From Ordinary to Extraordinary: Adaptation Is Our Superpower

Posted on September 19, 2020September 19, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Adaptation goes hand in hand with moving forward. This thought came to mind as I sat down in late August to write the following blog post for the final day of World Childless Week 2020.  I had hoped to log in and participate in some of the WCW live events, but this week overlapped with…

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World Childless Week 2020

World Childless Week Gives Voice to the Growing Childless Community

Posted on September 4, 2020September 4, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

World Childless Week is almost upon us. It originated in 2017 to support and build awareness for the childless not by choice community. In its initial week, September 2017, Twitter analytics documented 1.2 million tweets of #worldchildlessweek. In 2018 World Childless Week reached 85 countries.  Readers may recall I was one of those who shared…

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Kamala! Finally A Politician Who Sees Us

Posted on August 20, 2020August 21, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Kamala Harris won my heart for many reasons. Her Vice President acceptance speech, however, really resonated. Politicians (or their wives), for years, have harped on and on about their traditional families. Women politicians who have birthed a child, in particular, preface most of their speeches with “as a mother” or “as a mom.” It’s as…

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IVF Industry Can’t Have it Both Ways

Posted on July 9, 2020July 10, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

IVF industry messaging is a hot mess. That’s the conclusion I came to after seeing yet another study this week come from the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology (ESHRE). Yes, you read that headline correctly. Patients overestimate success in IVF. The implication is that we arrived at this conclusion independently. As my colleague…

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Social Media and ‘Sharenting’ Revisited

Posted on June 19, 2020June 20, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Social media, more often than not these days, tests our patience and our sensibilities. Let’s face it, we’ve all had to decide what is and isn’t cool to post. Trial and error hasn’t always proven pretty. For instance, those early days of social media were downright goofy as we all tried to discern what, exactly,…

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Mother Is Also a Verb

Posted on May 8, 2020May 9, 2020 by Pamela Tsigdinos

Mother is a word typically associated with an individual. This gets hammered hard particularly toward the second week in May as greeting card companies and consumer marketing teams get busy. But, let’s remember mother is also a verb (and an adjective for that matter). Mother Of All Change We’ve had to rethink many things during…

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